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WHAT ARE YOUR VIEWS CONCERNING PDA (PUBLIC DISPLAY OF AFFECTION) ARE YOU FOR IT OR AGAINST IT?


I listened to a programme on radio last night and their topic for discussion was PDA (Pubic Display of Affection). They asked people to share their opinion concerning it; whether they are for it or against it. Different responses came in and majority of the response seem to be in favour of PDA no matter how extreme it might be. But one response actually caught my attention and my nod of agreement. The person was like, PDA differs. It is good but when it is taken to the extreme, it can be very annoying and disgusting. When asked which she preferred, she said, holding hands and a simple hug will do for her but when it goes beyond that, she wouldn’t tolerate it.  You know, in as much as I really don’t fancy PDA, I think I quite agree with that response. I mean I prefer it to the other responses that were coming in. But I will really like to share my own views concerning PDA.

 Now for some of you that really don’t have an idea of what PDA really means, PDA the short form for ‘Public Display of Affection’ is a way by which two people display their love and affection for each other in public. It can sometimes be intentional and sometimes it just happens out of craziness and lust for each other. It can vary from holding hands, hugging, kissing on the forehead, and some even take it to the extreme of deep, tight and prolong kissing and hugging in public. And the most saddening thing is that PDA is usually carried out by two unmarried people. Hardly will you see two married people purposely displaying their affection to each other in public. The least they can do is hold their hands.

As a person, Christianity aside, I don’t fancy PDA because I don’t see a reason why I should flaunt my affection in public especially with someone I’m yet to be married to. I mean it’s just nonsense to me. Even holding hands is not even my style. I mean, I’m not just cut in for it. So coupled with the fact that I’m a Christian, and showcasing the likeness of Christ in everything I do, PDA is just out of the picture. I mean, PDA is not even allowed in Christian courtship. So to me, PDA is not even in my dictionary. The only form of PDA I might consider, and only with my husband in the context of marriage, is holding hands together and that is even if he likes it.  

Well that is just but my own honest view. Feel free to share yours. What is PDA to you?? Are you for it or against it?

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