I WON’T MARRY A WOMAN WHO LACKS VISION

I saw this very short post on Facebook written by a man and I was like Wow! Like seriously? I can’t believe that there are still some men who appreciate women and believe that their place shouldn’t be limited to the kitchen and house chores alone. I really love the post and I decided to share it on my blog having sought the author’s permission though. Read and comment with your views.

I won’t marry the kind of woman who sees getting married to me as her only channel of relevance. A woman who lacks any personal vision except marriage. Any woman who doesn’t have personal ambition apart from marriage is a liability, a burden. Because all they live for is to depend on men and please them too.

Women were made to be great too. Marriage doesn’t amount to the value of a woman. God didn’t create you just to date, eat fried rice, marry and produce babies. You have a purpose aside all those things.

By Solomon Franklin Buchi Bartholomew

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