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WHAT ARE YOU REALLY AIMING AT?



Hello guys! How is your day going? Well mine is going well and besides I just had my lunch and seriously it was delicious (winks). Yea, I have really been busy lately but I really thought I need to drop something today. So here I’m again with my pen always writing something to inspire you and making you thinking for the rest of your day. Trust me, it helps. 

What Are You Really Aiming At? I mean, what is (are) exactly your goal(s)?
There are too many people in too many cars, in too much of a hurry. Going too many directions, to get nowhere for nothing. Humans have the remarkable ability to get exactly what they must have. But there is a big difference between a ‘must’ and ‘want’. So many times, we are just too busy doing nothing.  If you don’t have clearly defined goals, you will end up helping others to achieve theirs. If you chase two rabbits at the same time, there is a tendency that both will escape. What you set your heart on, determines how you will spend your life. When you know where you are going, everywhere will not look like your destination. Some people find life an empty dream because they put nothing into it.
          You just have to ask yourself some soul searching questions. For example, ‘what do I really want from life? How will it benefit me and the people around me? What must I do to get it? What memories of me do I want to leave for the upcoming generations? Etc. Questions like these get you thinking and more focused. But if you are able to answer all these questions sincerely and correctly, then, you have discovered your true purpose on earth. It then remains of course your faith, focus and determination to achieve them. ‘The only ones who will be remembered are those who have done one thing exceedingly well’
Too many people avoid discovering the secret of success because deep down they suspect the secret may be ‘hard work’. Take a deep breath and ask yourself, ‘what am I really pursuing? Am I really pursuing something or is it something pursuing me? Don’t confuse yourself or keep getting in your own way by doing so many things at the same time. They will all end up in a mess. When you do more than a thing at a time, it is likely that you will end up not getting your desired result because you will ultimately be focused on one than the other, give more attention to one than the other and in the long run, you might just get tired and dump the whole thing without achieving anything. Do what you are enthusiastic about. Enthusiasm is the best protection in any situation. Wholeheartedness is contagious. Give yourself if you wish to get others.
            Aim for something that will demand all of your faith, attention, energy, focus, potential and of course your hard work; believe me; it will be worth the effort. It is better to fail at doing something than to excel at doing nothing. The difference will show. You learn a lot of lessons from the former. Aim higher, aim bigger than you are and develop a positive mindset. When you aim at something bigger than you, you will be able to stretch yourself really hard to achieve it and in the process discover that you can actually do what you never imagine or believed you could. True contentment comes when you know that you have done your best to become the best you can be.....You want to add one or few more tips, please comment with your Tips. Awaiting feedbacks.

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Love you always..

#Ciana Joy

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